Unseal our mental pains

Do we know that our first mental pain was developed by some relative people (parents, sibling, etc.) or our friends?

Your uncle told you that you are bigger than your sister. You got hurt and you keep yourself slim all life.
Your parents fought with words and one of them blamed your bad personality was from one of them. You felt whether you were their child or not and then you might show your good side to them or you might hide your all good side of personality.
You were a good student and you studied so hard. You did not have the time to do your social life. You did not have many friends. Your classmates kept away from you. They did not invite you. Even they treated you so bad. You might be afraid to go to the school or you want to be a successful man because of them.

For who are parents, please don't use your love as gambling chips. Please do not threat your children by your love. Love Is Unconditional.

When we grow up, we shall know those words are meaningless. Who spoken those words does not want to hurt you. We do not need to put those words on our shoulders. We sealed those pains before, now it is the time to unseal them, release them, and enjoy the life.